There’s nothing more joy or confidence boosting than beginning out an article with a definition, so let’s do that very first:
Fetish – An object or bodily part whose actual or fantasied presence is psychologically necessary for sexual gratification and that is an object of fixation to the extent that it may interfere with finish sexual expression
(Taken from the Merriam-Webster Online dictionary)
Now when voiced this way, a fetish indeed doesn’t seem like joy at all, instead of being something one might refer to spil ‘joy’, it’s more like a sexual ball and chain, an toegevoegd set of conditions that vereiste be met te order to practice sexual pleasure.
Fortunately, the term is insanely misused te many cases. Ter many instances, sexual kinks or predilections referred to spil fetishes aren’t truly fetishes at all. If you find wearing stockings hot, but are still more than capable of getting it on without wearing stockings, then you truly have more of a strong preference (often referred to spil a kink) than a fetish.
The term ‘fetish’ is also commonly used ter connection with activities, not just objects, spil the definition describes. For example, spanking is a common ‘fetish’ that many engage ter to one extent or another, be it ter the form of a playful love tapkast whilst walking past a fucking partner, or te the setting of a D/s ‘toneel’ where the spankee is tied to a bench and caned with a rubber singletail whip.
If you’re a little kinky, you might just be wondering if maybe you have a fetish. Take this joy fetish test to see if you might have a fetish, results are at the bottom of the pagina.
Simply Response Yes or No to the following questions:
Do you everzwijn dress te fetish wear te public?
Have you joined an Internet Pay Webpagina ter order to pander to your kink?
Have you joined more than one Internet Pay Webpagina ter order to pander to your kink?
Do you turn away fucking partners because they’re not kinky enough?
Did you have to zekering reading this article to go and uh, well, you know. because it made you think of your kink?
Do you look your kink up ter the dictionary for a little thrill?
Are you pursuing your kink right now?
Do you attempt to hide your kink from others?
Do you attempt to demonstrate your kink to others?
Do you find it unlikely to get into a sexual mood without thinking about your kink?
Does your kink have a widely known acronym?
Do you engage te your kink daily on a physical poot?
Do you engage ter your kink daily on a mental onderstel?
Have you thought about commencing a religion based on your kink?
Have you thought about beginning a political party based on your kink?
Do you only make friends with those who can advance you ter your kinkyness?
Have you lost vrouwen solely due to your kink?
Have you spent more than you can afford on your kink?
Has your kink caused you to visit a professional kink specialist
Have you everzwijn behaved inappropriately due to your kink?
(Just tally the number of ",yes", answers to get your score)
1-5 YES – You most likely don’t have a fetish.. Unless it’s simply a fetish for taking online tests. Be careful of them, they are addictive. They can zeehond your mind and soul within days if you permit them to suck you into their world of pseudo self exploration.
5-10 – Insatiable One! Aren’t you the kinky little thing. Your kink is still low to moderate however, so love it, you’re te no danger of becoming a xxx fetishist just yet.
10-15 – Fetish Apprentice! Aren’t you the fetishy little thing. You may be approaching fetish status, but you’re keeping it ter check, possibly just scarcely. Reminisce that there is life outside of kink merienda ter a while and you will be fine.
15-20 – Fetish Diva! You very likely have a fetish. This may cause you to have a limited sexiness, but an intense one. Do attempt to ensure that it does not rule your life however. Having a fixation on anything to the detriment of the surplus of your life is not a good thing, even if it does feel good, oh so good, at the time.
(Disclaimer: This should not substitute an accomplished’s opinion or just plain old fashioned common sense. Anyone taking this test too earnestly will be hunted down and whipped ruthlessly. But you’d like that, wouldn’t you? Horny boy/boi/chick/gurl.)